3months n 10days since iv arrived to LA . the place where i wanna be . the person who im trying to be . lookin for the perfect circle in my life, and i tot i can find it here or somewhat have a better chance finding it here . damn, its tough . i know it was gonna b hard, but just didnt know it was gonna b this hard . friends .. wat are simple word .. but such a complicated substance . many friends . many ppl want many friends, but who and wat are true n real friends? who are the ppl that can understand u? who are the ppl who can stand by ur side, when ur sad, when ur happy? no matter how far d distant is , u know they are gonna b there no matter wat . rainy days . sunny days, sad to say , friends back home . i did take them for granted . it took years to built d r/ship that i have with all of them  . its hard to build that bridge . it takes time n effort . and without knowing it . the friends that iv made back home . d bridge is so solid . a sense of belongin can b felt . feeling wanted . feeling needed . basel (siaw), u were right . u said 3mths, n i would feel how great kuching is and all of d ppl n fwends i know back home . im feeling that now .. but im not giving up yet . im here, d place, d choice iv made, d thing i wanted for so long .. zero friends in LA has been found .. hopefully in time . even a few friends that can b count by my fingers would b really really nice . sigh

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  1. Friends friends friends.. I need new friends too. One just made me feel dissappointed in her. Nothing else I can share with this girl. Hard to build good relationship with people. Sigh.. maybe it’s my fault. Maybe I chase them away from my presence.  

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  2. Aiseh…looks like basel can collect his betting money ah…he sed 3 months right?Haha..
    But anyway,like what I told you before..I agree real frenz need years to build,that’s why you need to start from now.So,don’t worry..in a few years time,you’ll get what you want.And besides,you STILL have your real friends.The only change is,the distance.But you all have internet connection..and telephone.So?I don’t see the problem..=) Though what you have now may not be enough for you,but you’ll always have both your past and future;the sweet memories of the moments with ur frenz in the past and the future to re-live those moments again.Stay tough boo,you’ll make it thru.*wink*
    And someone stole my url..should’nt I get a cheque for that?Hehe..take k now..

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  3. Hey vin it’s 7.50PM and i just woke up, i had a dream just now that i’m in US i dunno which part… it’s kinda lame. i went to find u and both of us go grocery shop.. then i was looking for this mee president from indonesia, lol, afterthat dun remember liaw. See… i event have u in my dream lol

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  4. hi vin, nothing to be sad about ler… things will definitely get better =) no doubt bout tati don’t haf much REAL frenz here myself either aye… but like u said… don’t gif up just yet.. kekeke anywayz, no nid think so much lar… just go wif da flow.. take k oo ^_^

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  5. WELL I HAVE GONE THRU WHAT U ARE GOING THRU RITE NOW WHEN I FIRST GOT HERE.. FELT LONELY AND MISSED THE OLD DAYS.. DON’T WORRY.. U ARE ONLY HERE 3 MONTHS.. IT’S GONNA TAKE SOMETIME TO FIT IN TO NEW THE ENVIRONMENT

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  6. vin,perhaps wut u said is rite but i hope u dun a judge a book from its cover…u will never know..maybe those people in LA(those u know) had already accepted u as their fren.. its just that they never told u…i know it took years to build a frenship…but sometimes that kind of frenship may jz took u few months nia…go hang out wit them alot…then u will surely forget all of us here in kuching…cibai kia,visited my link liaw boi..?

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  7. Your profile caught my eyes – SARAWAKIAN?
    For you:-
    FRIENDSHIP – Where there is unity there is always victory.
     
    The man who has a trade may go anywhere.
     
    It is not enough to have a good mind, the main thing is to use it well.
     
    When there’s a will there’s a way.
     
    A determination to succeed is the only way to succeed.

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  8. Yo Brother,
    Well, i know how it felt when u are trying to describe your lifestyle there. Do you still remember the Rapporting skills i told you before? To have True friends, it’s not easy, took times to built them up. Well, you got to have different kind of groups friend, Basketball Friends, Clubbing, Studying, and etc etc. You can start from the bball circle, because i think they are the easiest to built up, because u are passionate bout bball, so it’s easy. Don’t Give UP! haha.. May i’ll be in Korea, too bad i can’t go over to LA, else it’s gonna be FUN!~
    Take good care over there 🙂 don’t lock yourself up, k? Just in case u forgotten bout Rapporting skills, feel what that person is feeling and talk bout the topic that the person love, it’s rapporting. K? 🙂 All The BEST!~ 🙂

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  9. hey man, u will meet sum nu and nice frends as u walk down the path u chose, so yeah sit bac and juz relax. im shure things will lighten up for you~! cheerz m8*

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  10. It is a pain isn’t it? Especially when you’ve already built a strong bond with your friends in your hometown.. then? You move to another place to begin that whole cycle. I know how you feel. *hugz*

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  11. I love this post!  I need new friends…  It’s hard to find good friends these days.  I’m sorry you haven’t found any good ones yet, but we can be friends =)  wait we already are friends!!

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  12. Hi, Jitpunkia!  I am Malaysian, Lock, Stock & Barrel – A Sarawakian from 2nd Division, Sri Aman – 100% Ibanese Girl.  Right now I am staying in Shah Alam and working in Kuala Lumpur – Tasks Force Unit for some local bank. 

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  13. Hi, Jitpunkia!  I am Malaysian, Lock, Stock & Barrel – A Sarawakian from 2nd Division, Sri Aman – 100% Ibanese Girl.  Right now I am staying in Shah Alam and working in Kuala Lumpur – Tasks Force Unit for some local bank. 

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